Adjectives I’d like to people to be able to use to describe me in a year’s time – radiant, vibrant, ageless, light. I’d settle for ‘looks great for her age’, mind, but these would be nice!
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This is mercilessly plagiarised from the delightful Shauna Reid (see hers at http://www.shaunareid.com/2013/01/2012-review-thingo.html). It’s a great way to figure out where your year went right, and where it went not-so-right, and what to focus on for the year to come. Clearly I need to shake up this year a bit and try something new!
1. What did you do this year that you’d never done before?
Am really struggling to think of anything! I wish I could say sky diving, or spending the night in the desert, or taking up international espionage, but 2012 hasn’t been that exciting.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next this year?
Nope, not even close. I think I really should’ve
printed them out kept them close by and reviewed on a fairly regular basis. If I don’t really know what my resolutions are, it’s pretty hard to keep them!
I will do new resolutions. Really.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Yes, my friend, Rachel, had a little girl, and Hugh had a little boy. A couple more are due in 2013, however, most of my friends are past having babies.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
My Uncle Chris, who was also my godfather.
5. What countries did you visit?
USA, Germany, Sweden. I was supposed to go to Brazil but didn’t fancy the very long flight to Brasilia.
6. What would you like to have next year that you lacked in this one?
A trip back to the USA with the whole family. It’s been far too long since the kids have been there.
7. What dates from this year will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
January 25 and April 9, when both my husband and I turned 40.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Winning a new research contract, securing the jobs of several of my favourite colleagues.
9. What was your biggest failure?
Buying my husband tickets to see Pearl Jam in Berlin, but then not being able to sort out babysitting. Not only did we lose over €100 on the tickets, but we had a dream snatched from our hands. So much for his 40th birthday present…
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
No, thankfully! I had a blood pressure scare, but that turned out to be nothing.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Hard to say. I should say my iPad, but that was bought with research money so doesn’t count. I think it might be my Marimekko oilcloth, which I bought as an off-cut in a shop in Gothenburg. Everything about it gives me pleasure, and as I sit at the kitchen table at least three times a day, it gives me pleasure often.
12. Where did most of your money go?
If I’m honest, I’d say on interest on debt repayment. Also, my children. Always my children…
13. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Excited may be the wrong word…relieved more like…but Obama’s re-election.
14. What song will always remind you of this year?
‘Little Talk’ by Of Monsters and Men. I first heard it on breakfast tv in Berlin, and it’s been part of the soundtrack of the year.
The other song would be ‘I’m Yours’ by Jason Mraz. My sister and I stayed up late on her sofa talking well into the night, crying as we listened to it. It was her pregnancy song. Floods of tears.
15. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder?
Happier, I think. I’m living in a bigger house that gives us enough space to breathe as a family, and my career is definitely on the way up.
b) thinner or fatter?
Neither. I’m exactly the same as I was this time last year. Which is depressing.
c) richer or poorer?
Unfortunately, neither. I’m making quite a bit more money, but we’ve lost money out to the house move. I was really hoping to be much better off at this point, but que sera sera.
16. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Chilling out. I wish I’d kept up with meditation as it was making me feel much more relaxed. Resolution number one!
17. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Procrastinating. I did have far too much work on this year, but I also spent a lot of time faffing about online and not getting down to what needed to be done. I put it down to exhaustion.
18. How did you spend Christmas?
At home, as usual. We had family from the US over on Boxing Day, whom I’ve not seen in about 10 years, and it was a real treat.
19. Did you fall in love this year?
Nope, unless you count my kitchen table, complete with Marimekko oilcloth. I do really love having an eat-in kitchen!
20. What was your favorite TV program?
Anything Scandinavian. Borgen, The Killing, The Bridge…I’ve loved them all.
21. What was the best book you read?
New Andrea Camillieri books. Rory Stewart’s ‘The Places in Between’.
22. What was your favorite film of this year?
Not sure I’ve seen many non-kid films this year…
23. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I was 40. I worked a bit on a research bid (sigh…) and went out for french food with my family. Escargot with kids is a real treat! Not exactly what we had planned.
24. What kept you sane?
My family, my sister and N.B.D. This is our new family phrase to remind us that most things are N.B.D. (No Big Deal).
25. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
The husband on Borgen (Danish actor Mikael Birkkjaer).
26. Who did you miss?
My family overall, but especially my sister. I miss her everyday and would give just about anything to have her living next door to me.
27. Who was the best new person you met?
My new neighbour, Clara. It’s nice to have someone so simpatico living right across the street.